The AI Mediator That
Actually Takes a Side.
Stop arguing in circles. Start a voice session, upload your evidence, or take the DISC personality assessment — and get a clear verdict in minutes. Not another chatbot that validates everyone. Dr. Clarity tells you who’s right, who needs to change, and exactly what to do next.
How DISCpute works
Take the DISC Assessment
40 quick questions reveal your conflict style, stress triggers, and communication needs.
Choose Your Values
Select from Stoic Virtues, Biblical Principles, Utilitarian Ethics, or Family Values. Organizations can also upload custom mission statements, HR policies, or codes of conduct for tailored mediation.
Start a Session — Voice, Text, or Video
Speak freely, type it out, or turn on video. The AI listens to both sides, identifies speakers, and asks the right follow-up questions — however you prefer to communicate.
Get Real Answers
Walk away with a clear verdict, personalized action items, and a full session summary.
DISC Personality Assessment
DISCpute doesn’t just mediate — it understands how you think, fight, and communicate. Our 40-question DISC assessment reveals your conflict DNA.
40 Questions. 5 Minutes. Your Conflict DNA.
The DISC assessment presents you with 4 descriptors per question — one for each personality style. You rank them from “most like me” to “least like me.”
Questions span 5 life areas: Work, Social, Conflict, Relationships, and Self-Perception.
This reveals your natural style (what you do instinctively) and adapted style (how you adjust under pressure). The AI uses both layers to personalize every session.
Free to start • 40 questions • ~5 minutes • No credit card
Why DISCpute isn’t another generic AI tool
Most “AI coaching” apps give both sides a participation trophy. We don’t. Here’s what makes DISCpute fundamentally different.
It takes a side
Other AI tools say “both perspectives are valid.” Dr. Clarity evaluates the facts, applies your chosen values framework, and delivers a clear verdict. Someone is usually more right — we tell you who.
Upload your receipts
Arguing about a lease? Upload it. Fighting over a contract? Upload it. Disagreeing about an HOA bylaw? Upload it. The AI reads the actual document and references specific clauses in its ruling.
Personality-aware mediation
Our 40-question DISC assessment maps each person’s conflict style, stress triggers, and communication needs. The AI adapts its approach — direct with Dominant types, patient with Steady types, data-driven with Conscientious types.
Watch DISCpute resolve real fights
Swipe through the stories — couples, coworkers, and honest testimonials
See DISCpute in action
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🏠 Start a Session
Create or join a mediation session in seconds — no scheduling needed
📊 Your Dashboard
Mood trends, partner info, action items, and goals — all at a glance
📋 Session History
All your mediation sessions with status, participants, and filters
📈 Community Insights
Anonymized stats, mood trends, and values frameworks across all sessions
🧬 Your Profile
DISC personality type, achievements, values statements, and account settings
🔐 Easy Sign Up
Sign up with Google or email in seconds — free to start resolving
If you’ve got a dispute, we’ve got a resolution
Coaches charge $200/hour. Mediators charge $300/hour. Therapists have 6-week waitlists. DISCpute gives you coaching, mediation, and therapy — right now, for everyone.
Couples & Partners
Money fights, chore wars, in-law boundaries, intimacy disconnects. Get a verdict — not just validation.
Parents & Teens
Screen time, curfews, grades, trust. Both sides get heard in a structured space — no door-slamming required.
Co-Parents & Custody
Visitation schedules, holiday splits, school decisions, expense disputes. Upload your parenting plan and let AI mediate.
Coworkers & Teams
Credit-stealing, workload imbalance, micromanaging, remote vs. in-office tension. Resolve it before it hits HR.
Business Partners
Equity splits, strategy disagreements, profit disputes, role clarity. Upload your operating agreement for AI analysis.
Contract & Lease Disputes
Upload a lease, freelance contract, or service agreement. AI explains every clause, identifies risks, and tells you who’s right.
Roommates & Neighbors
Noise, shared spaces, property lines, parking. Get clear boundaries and action items instead of passive-aggressive notes.
HOA & Community Boards
Fence heights, paint colors, pet policies. Upload your HOA bylaws and get AI-backed rulings on who’s in violation.
Freelancers & Clients
Scope creep, late payments, revision limits, contract ambiguity. Upload your agreement and get instant clarity.
Friends & Family
Inheritance, money loans, wedding planning, boundary-crossing. When emotions run high, AI keeps it fair.
Divorce & Separation
Asset division, communication breakdowns, parenting transitions. Structured mediation when you can’t be in the same room.
Church & Community Groups
Leadership disputes, volunteer conflicts, congregation disagreements. Mediate with your chosen values framework as the foundation.
Teachers & Students
Grade disputes, classroom behavior, academic integrity. Fair resolution that models healthy conflict management.
Coaches & Athletes
Playing time, team dynamics, parent-coach conflicts. Data-driven resolution that keeps the team together.
Caregiver Disputes
Elderly care decisions, family responsibility splits, medical choices. When everyone thinks they know best, AI provides clarity.
What DISCpute is — and what it isn’t
DISCpute isn’t here to fix your entire relationship, and it won’t replace a therapist for the deep, ongoing work. What it does do is help you understand how the other person actually communicates — and work through one specific problem at a time, without the weeks of waitlists and the hundreds of dollars an hour that therapy or mediation costs.
- Untangling one disagreement at a time
- Showing you each person’s communication style
- Giving a clear, fair next step you can act on today
- A cure for a whole relationship in one session
- A replacement for long-term therapy
- A place to dump every problem at once
A tip from us: pick one topic to work through per session. Resolving a single problem cleanly beats trying to solve everything and settling nothing.
It started with one argument I couldn’t win any other way
I’m Jon Shilalis, and I’m a single dad to two little toddlers here in Florida. A while back, my ex and I got into a dispute over something that sounds small but didn’t feel small at all — whether a baby bottle should still be used for one of our kids. We were going in circles. I tried the regular AI tools everyone has, and they just couldn’t help: they couldn’t take in both of our voices, they couldn’t tell who was who, and they kept validating both of us instead of actually working the problem.
So I built something that could. DISCpute listens to both people, understands who’s saying what, factors in how each of us communicates, and walks us toward an actual resolution. And it worked — for a real problem, in my real life. My ex and I still use it to settle arguments as they come up while we co-parent. That’s when I knew other people deserved the same thing.
My background is in business management and real estate development — I used to own a real estate brokerage, and today I run a couple of startups. Somewhere along the way I fell in love with using AI for anything and everything, and that’s what made this possible. I’m an independent founder, and I built this entire app myself with AI over the last five months — every screen, every feature. When you use DISCpute, you’re not using something churned out by a faceless company. You’re using something one dad built because it genuinely helped his family, and he wanted it to help yours too.
My promise to you: I read every piece of feedback and I’ll always reach back out. And if you’re ever not happy, I’ll refund you — no hard feelings. This is a labor of love and I’m improving it constantly. Thank you for giving it a try.
Simple, Transparent Pricing
Start with 2 free sessions. No credit card required. Upgrade when you’re ready.
10-minute AI mediation sessions. Buy one at a time — no commitment.
Unlimited sessions for couples, co-parents, or anyone who needs ongoing support.
Everything in Monthly, locked in at the best price. Perfect for long-term growth.
Refer a Friend, Get a Free Session
Share your referral code. When someone signs up, you both get a free session. They get 3 free sessions instead of 2, and you earn 1 bonus session per referral.
🛡️ 30-day money-back guarantee on all subscriptions • Cancel anytime • No hidden fees
The full toolkit for conflict resolution
Video & Voice Mediation Sessions
Join by video or just talk. AI identifies who’s speaking, processes your words in real-time, and responds with voice guidance. Choose from 8 AI voices. No typing, no forms — just a conversation that actually goes somewhere.
Your AI Mediator — Decisive & Customizable
Our AI doesn’t hedge. It evaluates both sides, weighs evidence (including uploaded documents), applies your values framework, and tells you who has the stronger case. Rename it, pick its voice, adjust its speed — then let it give you action items.
Upload Documents & Evidence
Drop contracts, leases, photos, texts, or any document directly into your session. PDFs, images, DOCX — the AI reads it all instantly, references specific clauses, and uses it as evidence when delivering its verdict.
Partner DISC Comparison
See how your personality style interacts with your partner’s. Get AI-generated tips on communication, conflict triggers, and what each person needs — based on both DISC profiles side by side.
DISC Personality Assessment
40 ranking questions across 5 contexts (work, social, conflict, relationships, self). Rank each option 1-4 to reveal your blend type, stress profile, and get a partner-comparison report with personalized tips.
Values-Based Judgment
Choose Stoic Virtues, Biblical Principles, Utilitarian Ethics, or Family Values. Organizations can upload mission statements, HR policies, or codes of conduct for fully customized mediation.
Automatic Action Items
Every session ends with a summary, individual action items for each participant, and a clear verdict. Export or share the results. No more “wait, what did we agree on?”
Live Video Mediation
Face-to-face sessions via WebRTC video with AI mediation running alongside. Camera and mic toggles, voice recognition during video, and solo or multi-participant modes. When you can’t be in the same room but need more than text.
Customize Your AI Coach
Rename your AI mediator, choose from 8 distinct voices, adjust speech speed (0.75x–2x), or toggle text-to-speech on and off. Make the experience feel personal — your AI, your way.
Revisit & Restart Sessions
Completed sessions aren’t gone forever. Restart any finished session to continue the conversation with full history preserved. Delete sessions you no longer need. You’re in control.
Mood-Aware Intelligence
Log your mood before and after each session. The AI tracks patterns and adapts its tone — more gentle when you’re stressed, more direct when you’re calm and ready for hard truths.
12 Languages, Native Voices
English, Spanish, French, German, Japanese, Mandarin, Portuguese, Italian, Korean, Hindi, Arabic, and Polish. The AI speaks and understands your language with native-quality voices.
Journal & Progress Tracking
Reflective journaling with mood tags and AI-generated weekly summaries. Track how your conflicts evolve over time. See patterns you’d never notice on your own.
Crisis Detection & Safety Net
AI detects signs of self-harm, abuse, or danger and immediately surfaces crisis resources (988 Lifeline, DV Hotline, Crisis Text Line). Recommends handoff to a licensed professional when issues exceed AI scope.
Invite Anyone Via Email
Send a session invitation to any email address. They get a branded email with the session code and a direct join link. No app download, no account required to participate.
Achievements & Milestones
Gamified progress: earn badges for session streaks, completed goals, DISC mastery, and resolution milestones. Because showing up consistently is half the battle.
For Coaches, Mediators & Therapists
DISCpute isn’t replacing you — it’s supercharging your practice. Get matched with clients who need human expertise, armed with insights no other platform provides.
Sign up / log in, then visit the Real Therapist page to complete your application.
Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know about AI-powered conflict resolution.
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